I'm going to talk about families and relationships for a quick minute.
When my husband and I first met, we got a long so well. When our son was born, we were both new and young parents. Neither had really been around babies a lot, we just knew we had wanted kids.
Needless to say, exhaustion, fatigue, depression, anxiety, hormones; it all played a part in our relationship as husband and wife. We were now including one more person to the picture and it took a lot of adjusting. During our hard times, I would always call my family crying. Crying about how awful things were and how badly I wanted to come back home.
You see, I believe the major problem with me being a new mom was this: my family was no where near me. I couldn't call them and ask them to come over and help with the baby. My family is 2 states away! It took a major toll on me.
For quite some time things were going down hill, but my husband and I never gave up. Although it felt like we wanted to at times, we stuck through it all, and together.
Of course, because I included my family into my relationship with my husband, they are unsure as to what to think about him. Now, there are only about 4 people that I know of, who are on edge about him - because of me and my loud mouth. I will tell you however, it IS VERY difficult living with your husbands family and not having your family and friends around you. That is no lie.
Because of their feelings towards him, I actually 'unplugged' from my family for quite some time last year (2010). It was a MUCH needed break and I'm every bit positive that God had a play in that 'break'. It gave me time to look in front of me and see what I was. What I was, was actually happy, and with my husband. I was just too busy trying to please everybody at the same time.
Remember, there is One you should live to make happy, and that's the Lord our Savior! Then, our husbands. We choose to make a new family when we marry, and that becomes our priority. It's easy to get off track when it comes to our priorities as a Christian woman/wife/mother, we just have to seek God's guidance!
1 Corinthians 13: 4-8 "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails."